Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonour others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails. (1 Corinthians 13:4-8)
It’s no surprise research shows that families who provide high levels of love and support are more likely to raise healthy, happy kids. Showing love to one another is what families are all about. Yet, at the same time, it is no easy feat to live in loving ways with our partners, our children, or our family members on a daily basis. Practicing love in family relationships is both a blessing and a challenge, especially for parents. A parent’s love for their child is a reflection of God’s love for the world. It is a love that Paul writes of in Corinthians – a love that is patient, kind, trusts, hopes and perseveres. It is a love that always protects.
Just like God’s love, this love of our heavenly parent, the love we show our children is willing and able to sacrifice. Many parents sacrifice their time, energy and even money to provide opportunities for their children. Children do not always see or understand the sacrifices that a parent makes for them. Every parent deeply loves their child and wants the best for them in their learning and in their emotional, social and spiritual development.
Yet there is one thing you cannot sacrifice for your children. What is it you ask? It is your love for them. Your love is demonstrated through spending uninterrupted, positive time with your children. No amount of money can replace quality time with your own children. We can love our children in different ways, through telling them ‘I love you’ and other affirming messages. Through the practical ways we serve them. Through giving them gifts and presents on their birthdays. But the best way to show love for our children is by giving them our undivided attention. Putting down the technology, coming home early from work to surprise them, gifting them with our time to do activities together, is priceless. By doing this you are creating ‘MasterCard’ moments with your children that will be etched into their memories forever. In the process you might even be helping them learn God’s love.
Pastor Tim Jarick, College Pastor